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document.write('<h2>Why \'Honesty\' Really IS the Best Policy</h2><P><strong><em>by Brandon Jubar</em></strong></P><P><i>Do you ever fin');
document.write('d yourself telling a fib?  Just a little \'white lie\'?  It really is rather easy to do.  The problem is, those tiny untru');
document.write('ths can snowball out of control sometimes.  Maybe that\'s a very practical reason to consider a policy of nothing but hon');
document.write('esty.</i></P><P>Let\'s set aside the fact that lying is wrong for a moment.  We won\'t go so far as to suggest that lying');
document.write(' isn\'t wrong, because it is, but I\'d like to focus on a different aspect of lying right now.  I\'d like to look at what r');
document.write('eally happens when we tell a "harmless" lie.</P><h3>Our Perception Is Limited</h3><P>No matter the occurrence, it\'s ha');
document.write('rd to remember exactly what happened.  That\'s because we only perceive a small part of things.  No matter how hard we tr');
document.write('y, we only have one set of senses, which allows us to experience the world from where we are at any given moment.</P><P');
document.write('>Find five different people who witnessed an event, and you will get five very different descriptions of what happened. ');
document.write(' Does that mean some of them are wrong?  No.  It simply means that they experienced it from a different angle, viewpoint');
document.write(', or even frame of mind.</P><h3>Our Lies Get Confusing</h3><P>Thanks to our limited perception, the truth is sometimes');
document.write(' a bit unclear.  When we throw a few lies into the mix, things become even messier.  Now we have to not only remember an');
document.write('d interpret what we really saw, but also remember the lies we\'ve told.</P><P>Of course, if it appears that we\'re about ');
document.write('to get caught in a lie, we are forced to lie a bit more to cover our tracks.  When we lie a bit more, however, it just c');
document.write('ompounds the problem.  One little lie can lead to another, and eventually our house of cards will fall down.  When that ');
document.write('happens, we can lose face, lose friends, and potentially hurt people we care about.</P><h3>The Truth Is Easy</h3><P>Mo');
document.write('st people learn from experience better than from a lecture or from reading it in a book.  This is because we rely on our');
document.write(' senses for so much.  We can remember all sorts of details that were perceived by our senses.  Is it any wonder that the');
document.write(' truth is easier to remember?</P><P>When we tell someone a lie, we are also telling it to ourselves.  We haven\'t experi');
document.write('enced it, so we are relying on a very small part of our memory to keep the details straight.  Frankly, it rarely works. ');
document.write(' If it didn\'t really happen, it\'s hard for us to keep it straight.  So even if we ignore the fact that lying is wrong, i');
document.write('t just makes practical sense to pay attention when God tells us not to lie.</P><hr><P>Copyright 2004-2009 <strong><em>b');
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